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Tips for better life…..

June 19, 2008

Tips for Better Life
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1. Take a 10-30 minutes walk every day. And while you walk, smile.

2. Sit in silence for at least 10 minutes each day.

3. Sleep for 7 hours.

4. Live with the 3 E’s — Energy, Enthusiasm, and Empathy.

5. Play more games.

6.  Read more books than you did in 2007.

7. Make time to practice meditation, yoga, and prayer. They provide us with daily fuel for our busy lives.

8. Spend time with people over the age of 70 & under the age of 6.

9. Dream more while you are awake.

10. Eat more foods that grow on trees and plants and eat less food that is manufactured in plants.

11. Drink plenty of water.

12. Try to make at least three people smile each day.

13. Don’t waste your precious energy on gossip.

14. Forget issues of the past.  Don’t remind your partner with his/her mistakes of the past.
     That will ruin your present happiness.

15. Don’t have negative thoughts or things you cannot control.  Instead invest your energy in the positive present moment.

16. Realize that life is a school and you are here to learn. Problems are simply part of the curriculum that appear and fade away like algebra class but the

lessons you learn will last a lifetime.

17. Eat breakfast like a king, lunch like a prince and dinner like a beggar.

18. Smile and laugh more.

19. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone.  Don’t hate others.

20. Don’t take yourself so seriously. No one else does.

21. You don’t have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.

22. Make peace with your past so it won’t spoil the present.

23. Don’t compare your life to others’. You have no idea what their journey is all about. Don’t compare your partner with others.

24. No one is in charge of your happiness except you.

25. Forgive everyone for everything.

26. What other people think of you is none of your business.

27. GOD heals everything.

28. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.

29. Your job won’t take care of you when you are sick. Your friends will.
       Stay in touch.

30. Get rid of anything that isn’t useful, beautiful or joyful.

31. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.

32. The best is yet to come.

33. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.

34. Do the right thing!

35. Call your family often.

36. Your Inner most is always happy.  So, be happy.

37. Each day give something good to others.

38.  Don’t over do.  Keep your limits.

39. When you awake alive in the morning, thank GOD for it.

how did he get the success !!…

May 23, 2008

Introduction:

this story reveals the personal life of a person in Madurai(Tamil Nadu, INDIA). The person belongs to a poor family. his father was ran away from the family carelessly. His mother took in charge and brought up him up to his success. but in contrast this story reveals the reason, “how did he get the success”

Story

the Schene opening at an town area Hospital, where the hero was born.

A small & poor crew awaiting for the birth of the child.

a screming sound alerts the relatives of the couple, all the sudden (when the clock strucked 2:20 pm) a nurse appears in front of them and greeted for getting a male child for the next generation. the crew fell in merry to get the child, since it was happened after a great & tremendous prayer to their faith.

they brought up the child with great care and affection,  they gave the better education what could they can !!, he also grew with brave, caurage, knowledge and got the education upto “Diploma in Computer Technology“.

In this period, the hero got lot of bitter, better and useful lessons and experience in his life. now the mother was turned old and not able to earn to lead the family, hence the hero take over the charge after a 6 months of time without an interest in life(since he want to enjoy the life as like a Royal fellow). the great comedy was, the hero didnt know any thing about the job profile in which he was going to work, but god’s grace he learned everything because of his talent & help from the collegues.

He had so many freinds, and in contrast his close friends were as follows:

Ramesh (Computer Hardware & Networking Engineer), Vetri_Chelvam (Care taker of his father’s business, Bottle Recycling), Selva_Kumar (Computer Farms, Machine Operator Cum Chief Mechanic), Anandan (Software Engineer, canada), Ilayaraja (Collection Executive Reliance Insurance, India). Kalaivanan (Apparels Quality Controller), Kannan (Decorator), Vinoth Kumar (Admin Window,exchange server), Fairose Khan (Dubai), Daniel Raj (Travels Owner),.

As stated above, his friends are from various life cycle and from various status, though he used to manage some hard situation which could occur rarely.

He struggled a lot to run his family, in this time, he got another one confusion in the form of a Beautiful but cultureless girlfriend(from different religion), in the beginning, he doesn’t know about her and since it was his first love he fell in love very deeply and very honest to her but not she. With great risk and lot of sacrifice he married her, the love life went very sweetly, but for the shake, the sorrow started to him thourgh religionity through his mother-in-law, who seperated them from their lovely love life. More over, she had illegal relation with his cusin brother who  married her sister. because of this worst and bitter experience he got away from her.

In this situation, as a sweet, A friend who studied with him in his polytechnic college got in touch and given his helping hands to the hero. Now after a very dipressed heart the hero migrated to the capital city of the state, entered into a metropolitan life. He looks everything new and admired the metro politan life. since he have some scar in his heart because of his first wife, this time he was careful in approaching the girls moreover the city girls are entirely different from his hometown. His concentration fell completely in achieving the soffistication of life through earning. He worked hard, earned well, settled his local lending problems at his hometown, rejoiced as like a soldier who defeated the enemy in the war (even though the achievement is very low). He admired and entertained every moment. He thought he have came across his sorrows successfully. he got new freinds from his working admosphere, she keep on chatting, mailing with them whenever he got the time for that.

One day an un-expected mail came from a femail ID, the reply is “Your mails are nice & awesome, Keep in touch”, he wasnot able to understand who was she, later both were wrapped tightly, they got closer, they shared each other’s expectations and interests frankly. One day the girl declared her love sweetly thru an SMS. Now the hero got the confusion whether to accept or to deny the request. Over a deep thought and with doubtful conclusion he replied:”I  love you too dear”.

There started his terning point, when he came to know about her deeply about the background of her, he felt he had mistaken, since the girl was a rich & royal, because he feared that he could loss her as second time, which he could not tolerate in any time, he fainted a lot for this reason. One day he expressed his fear to her, she patiently consoled him with her medicinal and sweet words, then continued their voyage,

One day she gave him Bomb shock, She said: “interested in marriage only if the life will be a rich one, other wise you have to decide further”. Again the hero fainted for a week of time, then slowly he came from his faints and decided to become a big man, he planned to a business, but he didnt do that since it required a lump some amount which could not be able to him, and fought with her regarding her shock. But she replied very cool, “Dear am trying to bring you up in life, but you lazy fellow, still residing the deep poor well. Come on comeup, there is lot to achieve, dont give up yourself, you have the knowledge, will-power, so try to do something, Its also not possible for me to live without you. Hence try to understood me”.

Then he crushed his brain and decided to do a course in computer regarding to his field, the started studying SQL. Obviously he passed the exam in distinction and got the job in a city called “Bangalore,(Karnataka, India)”. He sharpened his talent and eligibility, By the goodness, he got the oppurtunity to go for “London”, as Database Administrator, after a 4 months of time, he explored his love secret to the family of his lady-love. as usuall in the beginning they started to object. but later after enquiring all the details like characteristics and behaviour and status, both family accepted for his love.

the lovers now living happily in North-London,

MOral:

1) True Love stands for the success, whereas the false one leads for the fall. 2) One who Identify themself, can have their success at their door steps.